I Declined

I was hanging out with the Helios Co-Op Crew last night
But I ended up drinking with this girl I barely knew
I knew of her, she was the bartender across the street
She saw me dance by myself on New Years Eve
She said she was impressed
That a person can have so much fun by themselves sober
Trust me, I Impressed myself too
We got really wasted.
I invited her back to my place.
And I massaged her till 6 in the morning
something I do when I’m drunk
We talked and talked and talked.
Apparently, our conversation made her breakup with her guy and she leased a new apartment the next day
I don’t know what I said.
I hope this is a good thing for her.
We hung out again.
She wanted me to go to Marfa, TX with her. I was just there a couple months ago.
She wanted me to take ecstasy with her
but I kindly declined.
She kept asking and asking for me to take it
it gave me anxiety, I wish people understood
ive tried it before, the consequences don’t please me
it gives me depression, I can’t let myself go back to the bottom of the well, I don’t think she understands
ill only take it if it feels right, and it didn’t feel right
so I eventually left when the time was forgiving
and I never saw her again.
Am I an asshole?